A date with Robert

I’m not too nervous for this date because the chances are high he’s going to be a complete wanker and after half an hour, we'll be paying for our drinks and ordering separate Ubers. My first thought on seeing Robert was that his online photos are really rather out of date. Still, he is handsome,... Continue Reading →

Four dates in three days

Phew. It's been a busy weekend! Four dates in three days: and three of those were firsts. It feels like dating has become a hobby. I suppose that is the stage that I'm at currently. If perhaps one in four dates leads to something more, then one does need to spend time dating. It's an... Continue Reading →

Rising standards

My standards have gone up. That means more dates, less sex. Despite that leaving me in a somewhat sexually frustrated place, I think it's wholly a good thing: quality, not quantity. Instead of arranging a "play-date" with someone with matching kinks, I'm seeking an emotional connection to go alongside that. It means I want to... Continue Reading →

Breast lust

It’s always around the new moon when my breasts feel heavy, and ache desperately for attention. I want to be told to lift them out of my bra, and then for the conversation to continue as normal. Perhaps for my nipples to be played with as I’m asked everyday questions… struggling to find words as... Continue Reading →

Basic numeracy

Who knew that counting could be so damned hot? He lives a long way away so we talk on the phone. He’s deliciously dominant and enjoys controlling me. He tells me to masturbate with a powerful vibrator that he knows will make me cum quickly. He tells me to start counting for him. He can... Continue Reading →

Time to let go

I had my suspicions that we weren’t kink-compatible. We tried really hard to find common ground… fucking me from behind in front of a mirror whilst holding my hair… that was good. More than good. It was super hot. I just needed more. Charlie and I get on like a house on fire. It’s so... Continue Reading →

Robert is an arrogant prick

Robert is an arrogant prick. Every other sentence is irritating, cocky and/or offensive. He is annoyingly persistent, intellectually superior and condescending. So why do I find him so fucking irresistibly sexy? What is it about him? He makes me mad, and I end up getting cross almost every time we message. Is this some sort... Continue Reading →

Doctor Doctor

My name is Ruby and I have a medical fetish. That is pretty embarrassing for me to admit so publicly. Plus one of my kinks is that I find being embarrassed arousing…. So I’m kind of enjoying this uncomfortable squirming feeling that’s reddening my cheeks as I type. This particular kink of mine is the one... Continue Reading →

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