There's something about the psychology of BDSM that is about opposites. I find it fascinating, though I haven't got my head around it yet. I'd love to learn more about it someday. There are things you really don't want your Dominant to know because you know they'll use it to their own evil ends! At... Continue Reading →
Tickle me senseless
Tickling was a complete surprise kink for me. I was introduced to it by a fetlife friend and was very quickly hooked. Don’t get me wrong… it is utter and absolute fucking agony, which is why it’s a hard limit for many folks. So why do I want to be relentlessly tortured?! I love to... Continue Reading →
Alarm bells
Remember the play date I was so excited about in my post "Anticipation"? The blushing, the magic spell, the bliss of submission etc etc? Well according to George, I've gone cold. Like yesterday's porridge, I am no longer on the menu. "I always like to inspect a new sub." George had it all planned. The... Continue Reading →
BDSM for newbies
Writing about a new partner made me think about approaching play for the first time and how to stay safe and happy. I thought I'd share my thoughts in case it's helpful to anyone out there in the early days of exploring dominance and submission. Things to talk about with a new partner before you play... Continue Reading →
Anticipation…
The first play date with George beckons and the anticipation is building. He has been shopping for various items that make me blush at the mere mention. Of course there's dinner first, so he can no doubt tease me at the table. He has experience as a dominant, and the match between our kinks is... Continue Reading →
Robert is an arrogant prick
Robert is an arrogant prick. Every other sentence is irritating, cocky and/or offensive. He is annoyingly persistent, intellectually superior and condescending. So why do I find him so fucking irresistibly sexy? What is it about him? He makes me mad, and I end up getting cross almost every time we message. Is this some sort... Continue Reading →